December 11

Prompt: December 11

When I’m at home, I live outdoors

And I find while I’m here, I miss it.

Don’t get me wrong, you I adore,

But that sadness—I can’t just dismiss it.

Let’s find a time to get outside,

Where the air is fresh and the sky is wide. 

Download the prompts for December 9-12 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  You may also want to go ahead and download the prompts for December 13-16. They’re available here as a PDF, or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 11 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 11 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

 None, really, but of course it depends on where you plan to go! Outdoor clothes, possibly a nature journal, and transportation, depending on your destination.

Activity

Spend some time in nature with your child and your frog. Be sure to ask your kiddo questions as you go. What do they notice about the world around them? What do they like about this adventure? We love to get outside even if the weather is terrible, but when we go for a rainy hike, we’re always sure to bring a thermos of cocoa.

December 10

Prompt: December 10

When I think of winter, I think of deep snow,

the moon’s haloed glow,

and a Christmas light show.

If I painted winter, I’d use white and blue,

And some red and green, too.

It would show you the winter I always knew.

Let’s look at how artists paint their winters. What do they choose to show us?

Download the prompts for December 9-12 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  

An image of the Dec. 10 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 10 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

  •  Some artist’s renditions of winter. These can be to your taste, but here are a few suggestions:

  • Claude Monet’s The Magpie. I like the harmony of this painting with Teasdale’s poem.

  • Many of Will Cotton’s paintings are whimsical, candy creations of winter. I particularly love Out of the Woods and Alpine Ruin.

  • This list from the BBC has lots of great options.

Claude Monet’s The Magpie, oil on canvas, 1868

An image of a gingerbread house on mounds of frosting, which resemble snow. The house appears to be perched on the edge of a candy cane cliff.

Will Cotton’s Alpine Ruin, oil on linen, 2008

An image of a pink unicorn. Candy (peppermint ropes and whipped cream) tower in the background, like snowy woods.

Will Cotton’s Out of the Woods, oil on linen, 2020

Activity

Look over the paintings above, or any winter-themed art of your choosing. Ask your kids what they notice. You might want to ask:

  • What colors do you notice the most?

  • Does your eye go to one particular place in the painting? Why?

  • Do you think there’s a most important part of this painting?

  • How do you feel when you look at this painting? Does that change the longer you look at it?

  • Is this how winter looks to you?

  • Close your eyes and describe this painting from memory. Then, open them. What did you remember? What did you forget?

December 9

Prompt: December 9

Let’s read a favorite book together. Then, let’s put on a play. Can we become the characters from the book? 

If you could change one thing about the story, what would you change?

If you could write the next chapter, what would happen?

Download the prompts for December 9-12 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  

An image of the Dec. 9 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 9 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

  •  A favorite book

  • Costumes & props, if desired

Activity

This one is easy, and it’s recurring throughout the month. Every remaining Thursday, we’ll read and act out a favorite book. Make this as elaborate or as basic as you like: the goal is to take the perspective of the characters and to have fun.

December 8

Prompt: December 8

I spent all night thinking over that poem

And the beauty it conveyed.

The way the happy skaters swayed

And the bluejay preened as they gazed at him.

Let’s write a poem of our winter, here

And its beauty, fearless and gay.

Let’s share the story of all our cheer

We could even rhyme along the way!

Download the prompts for December 5-8 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  You can download the next set of prompts, for December 9-12, here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 8 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 8 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

 Materials

Something to write on (a piece of paper, a tablet, etc.)

Something to write with (a pen, pencil, or tablet, etc.)

Activity

One of my favorite things to do with my kids is write poems with them. Poems are so free-form, that even though my oldest is still learning how to write, she feels confident in her skills.

To start, you might want to reflect on the poem we read yesterday. Ask your kids what they like about the poem. Then, have them start brainstorming what winter experiences they want to capture in their poem.

You might want to let them know that poetry:

  • Doesn’t have to rhyme

  • Can use invented spelling

  • Can be as short or long as they like

  • Can be funny! Or serious! Poetry can be about any emotion at all.

If your kiddo is stuck, you might suggest playing “Exquisite Corpse” (or a simplified version of the game). The game dates back to the Parisian Surrealist Movement, and you probably played a version of it in English class. Each player writes a line, then folds the paper to conceal it, then passes it to the next player. If you’re playing with younger children, you might just go back and forth saying words, while an adult writes them down into the poem. The point here is to get our kids to think creatively and playfully about their emotions, and also about how to communicate those emotions to other people.

December 7

Prompt: December 7

When I want to see the world anew

I read a little poem.

When I want to learn something fine and true

I read a little poem.

When I want to see through the eyes of another

I read a little poem.

Let’s read a poem now to each other,

Let’s read a little poem!

Download the prompts for December 5-8 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  

An image of the Dec. 7 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 7 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

A poem to read. While you are welcome to choose any poem, of course, tomorrow’s prompt references “A Winter Bluejay” by Sara Teasdale.

A Winter Bluejay

Sara Teasdale

Crisply the bright snow whispered,
Crunching beneath our feet;
Behind us as we walked along the parkway,
Our shadows danced,
Fantastic shapes in vivid blue.
Across the lake the skaters
Flew to and fro,
With sharp turns weaving
A frail invisible net.
In ecstasy the earth
Drank the silver sunlight;
In ecstasy the skaters
Drank the wine of speed;
In ecstasy we laughed
Drinking the wine of love.
Had not the music of our joy
Sounded its highest note?
But no,
For suddenly, with lifted eyes you said,
“Oh look!”
There, on the black bough of a snow flecked maple,
Fearless and gay as our love,
A bluejay cocked his crest!
Oh who can tell the range of joy
Or set the bounds of beauty?

 This poem appears in the collection A Poem for Every Winter Day, edited by Allie Esiri. The Frog will be giving my kids this book today, and I hope to read a poem from it every morning at breakfast throughout the winter.

Activity

So many things have been said about poetry, but I’ve always thought of it as the most efficient way to slip into someone else’s perspective. William Wordsworth famously described poetry as “the spontaneous overflow of powerful feelings: it takes its origin from emotion recollected in tranquillity.” But if poetry is emotion, it is important to consider whose emotion. Certainly the poet’s, but the reader and poet co-collaborate with every reading and interpretation; once read, it ceases to be just the poet’s “powerful feelings.” Italian poet Salvatore Quasimodo highlighted the way poetry is both intensely personal and, necessarily, broadly evocative. After winning the Nobel prize for literature in 1959, the poet said “Poetry ... is the revelation of a feeling that the poet believes to be interior and personal which the reader recognizes as his own.” For our children, part of building empathy is realizing that other people have a rich interior world, and also realizing that they have one of their own. Over the next few days, we’ll enjoy poetry with our children to build their awareness of emotional expression.

Read Teasdale’s poem with your children. Then, if you like, ask them some simple questions about it. What do you notice about this poem? What did you see while reading this poem? Did it feel like you were seeing through the poet’s eyes? How do you think the poet felt while writing this poem? Have you ever been so overcome with beauty and joy that you wanted to immortalize it like this? When? What’s your favorite word in this poem? Are there any words here you would change?

Tomorrow, we’ll give our kids a chance to write a poem of their own, and these questions can help them feel empowered to attempt poetry themselves.

December 6

Prompt: December 6

While I’ve been away I’ve had letters from friends

And each one has brightened my day.

I wonder if we could grab paper and pens

And send some good cheer on its way.

Let’s make a holiday card for someone we won’t get to see

in person this holiday season!

Download the prompts for December 5-8 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  

An image of the Dec. 6 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 6 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Any art supplies you would like to use to make cards. We’ll use colored card stock, crayons, glue, and some old buttons we have laying around to create Christmas Tree cards like the one pictured here. This year I think we’ll also try making our own envelopes!

A homemade holiday card. A piece of cream cardstock is folded in half, and construction paper and colorful old buttons simulate a decorated Christmas tree.

A homemade holiday card. A piece of cream card stock is folded in half, and construction paper and colorful old buttons simulate a decorated Christmas tree.

Activity

This was one of my absolute favorite activities from last year, and it’s one my kids still talk about regularly. We’ll make cards to send to some friends and family we’ve been missing just to spread some cheer. As we craft, we’ll talk about the people we miss and what we love about them.

December 5

Prompt: December 5

Holiday treats are delicious delights

But too many people go hungry some nights.

I wonder if we might spread prosperity

By donating something in solidarity?

Let’s donate some food to some neighbors in need.

Then our own treats will taste sweeter, indeed.

Download the prompts for December 5-8 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  

An image of the Dec. 5 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 5 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Food or money to donate to an organization that seeks to end hunger and food scarcity. Some good local options include Food for Lane County, Burrito Brigade, and Willamette Farm and Food Coalition. This is by no means a comprehensive list, and I’d love to hear from you if you have additional suggestions.

Activity

This one is easy. Over breakfast, we’ll chat about food scarcity, and what that means for families. Since we enjoyed such a feast yesterday, it seems like the perfect opportunity to think about what it might be like to worry about our next meal. Then, we’ll talk a bit about our favorite organizations working on food security, and donate to one.


December 4

Prompt: December 4

As a young little frog, I sat on a log.

A Bûche de Noël, which we baked in the bog.

A yummy Yule log made of icing and cake,

that we made every winter, with extra to take

and to share with our friends to spread our good cheer.

Is there something your family makes special here?

Let’s think up a holiday treat we can share

To show someone special just how much we care.

 

Download the prompts for December 1-4 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  If you’d like to get a jump start on printing the prompts for December 5-8, you can download them here as a PDF, or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 4 prompt printed on cream cardstock with an orange border. A green wax seal of a frog is in the lower right hand corner. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 4 prompt printed on cream cardstock with an orange border. A green wax seal of a frog is in the lower right hand corner. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

  • Recipes for special holiday foods, if you have any

  • Ingredients to make those foods

  • Packaging to bring those foods to someone special

Activity

With your kiddos, talk about your family traditional foods for this time of year. What do you love to make and eat for special occasions? Is there something you share, or bring to friends and neighbors? We love to make these Brown Butter Stamp Cookies, and we use snowflake stamps to make them extra special. They’re delicious, only slightly sweet, and they travel well and look harder than they are to make. Once you’ve talked through the options, and shared your best memories of them, put on your aprons and make your favorite holiday treat, with extra to share. If you don’t have time today, schedule a cooking date with your kiddos. Bon appétit!

December 3

Prompt: December 3

Before you were up, I worried I was Home Alone,

But then I remembered that It’s a Wonderful Life, and you wouldn’t leave me on the sh-Elf!

Let’s watch your favorite holiday movie today, and don’t forget the snacks!

What makes you love this movie? Can you imagine it happening in your life? How would your friends and loved ones react in this situation?

An image of the Dec. 3 prompt printed on cream colored cardstock with an orange border. A green frog seal is in the lower right hand corner. The card is tucked into a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 3 prompt printed on cream colored cardstock with an orange border. A green frog seal is in the lower right hand corner. The card is tucked into a lit Christmas tree.

Download the prompts for December 1-4 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  If you’d like to get a jump start on printing the prompts for December 5-8, you can download them here as a PDF, or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

Materials

  • A favorite holiday movie and way to watch it

  • Movie snacks! Our frog will be paired with some jiffy pop.

Activity

Let your child choose a favorite holiday movie to watch. This exercise is about holiday fun, of course, but also about imagining themselves and the people they love in different scenarios. What would you and your family do if the same plot engines happened in real life? If Buddy the Elf appeared at your doorstep, would you welcome him with open arms? How would everyone feel? If you have younger kids, it could be fun to simply “play” the movie after it’s done. With older kids, try talking through the plot and imagining it in the real world, no matter how silly.

December 2

Prompt: December 2

Knock Knock

Who’s there?

Icy

Icy Who?

Icy a kid who needs a good belly laugh!

Everybody loves to laugh! Today, let’s find a way to share a laugh with someone. Maybe we can think up some jokes together!

Download the prompts for December 1-4 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  

A picture of the second day's prompt, printed on cream cardstock with an orange border. A green wax seal of a frog is in the upper right hand corner. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

A picture of the second day's prompt, printed on cream cardstock with an orange border. A green wax seal of a frog is in the upper right hand corner. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

The frog and the prompt! You may, of course, supplement with anything that will help get your kids laughing. In our house, the frog will have printed out some age-appropriate jokes.

Activity

I feel like I haven’t been laughing nearly enough lately, and that’s tragic! It can be hard to laugh when everything is stressful, but laughter has lots of health benefits, and trying to laugh with friends and loved ones can be an important element of social bonding. The goal here is not just to get the kiddos laughing (although that’s important), but to get them to try to get others laughing. To do it effectively, they’ll need to think about what that person finds funny and that will simple act of perspective-taking can encourage empathetic development. Have fun, and bust a gut!

If your kiddo is struggling, find some jokes on the internet. Worst case scenario, schedule a Laughter Yoga call, where you and others can awkwardly fake laugh together on the phone!

December 1

Prompt: December 1

Hello, my darlings, I have missed you so!

And while I remember how you used to know

About holiday traditions around the whole planet,

I’d love to learn more about your unique plan, yet.

Yes, what are you planning for all through this month?

Will a tree come indoors, or will mummers turn up?

Share your traditions, and let’s learn some more

I’ve been gone a lot longer than I have cared for.

If you’re new here, and you’re just introducing your frog, you may want to use the Dec. 1 prompt from last year, instead.

Well welcome, hello, fancy meeting you here!

I’ve come to your home to spread holiday cheer.

Every day this month, I’ll share a surprise;

Some are gifts, some are games, some will help you be wise.

I can’t wait to get started, and I’ve brought your first gift,

It’s the world in your hands: hope it gives you a lift.

Download the prompts for December 1-4 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

If your frog is new this year, you may want to look back over last year’s post and see if that prompt would work better. The activity is essentially the same, but the introduction is different.

An image of a cream colored card with an orange border and a green wax seal of a frog in the lower, right-hand corner. The card has the prompt for the day printed on it, and is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

The first prompt, nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

  • A book about winter holidays around the world. We have Lights of Winter, by Heather Conrad and illustrated by deForest Walker, but any book about any winter holiday would work. This is a great list.

Activity

Today is a gateway to a cozy, warm, and loving holiday season. I’m excited to read about global holidays with my kiddos, but also to get them to share a bit about the holiday traditions that mean the most to them. What are they excited about? What do they remember from last year? What should I prioritize, for them, to make them feel joyful this season? This exercise is an invitation to dialog with your children about the things they love about the holidays with your family, and the things that you want to be sure to share with them.

Recommended Supply List

It’s hard to commit to something when you don’t know what you’ll need. This year, I’d like to make Festive Frog as accessible as possible, so I’ve tried to keep the necessary supplies to a minimum. Everything necessary is listed below.

Essentials

  • Cardstock, cards, or paper for printing or writing the daily prompts

  • A printer & ink, or pens/pencils, or other writing implements

  • Internet access

  • Library access

Craft Supplies You Likely Already Have

  • Paint brushes

  • Smooth, plain river rocks

  • Acrylic paint & sealant

  • Paint and paper of your choice

  • Construction paper in assorted colors

  • Scissors

  • Card-making materials of your choice. Construction paper and crayons are fine, but you can get as fancy as you and your kiddos like.

  • Calendars/magazines to cut up for collaging

  • Glue

Donations

Food

  • On 12/4 we’ll make or buy a holiday treat (of your choice) to share with a friend or neighbor

  • On 12/5 we’ll donate to a food bank

  • On 12/24 we’ll create a plate of treats for someone. In my house this is Santa, but it can be a parent, a sibling, or a friend.

Transportation

  • A few times this month we’ll get outside for adventure. You get to choose your destination, though the frog will make broad suggestions. The first of these, on 12/11, is to any “nature” spot. The next weekend, the frog suggests a winter river walk.

Books

  • Almost every Thursday, the frog will prompt you to read and act out, or discuss, a story with your kiddos. This can be any story they choose, but it can be fun to have it be relevant to your family’s holiday traditions or to some of the issues the frog is addressing. We’ll recommend titles as we go, but these are nothing more than general suggestions. Any book is a good book!

The Festive Frog Returns!

It’s that time of the year: the Festive Frog has starting croaking slowly to life. Is it a little last minute this year? Absolutely. Will it still be fun and festive? Of course!

If you’re new this year, the Festive Frog is an empathy-building exercise for kids. Every day over the month of December I’ll post a note (from the frog) with an activity, gift suggestion, or exercise designed to foster kindness, generosity and empathy in your kids, but in a fun and joyful way. I’ll also post all the supplies you need, and give you a few days advance warning so you have time to have everything at the ready. The frog is not religious and is not linked to any specific holiday, but it is explicitly anti-racist and pro-environment. If you’d like to join in, pick out a frog and check here for regular updates.

My aim is to give you 31 fun, pre-planned, empathy-building ideas for children and a break from planning every single thing yourself.

Because the pandemic is ongoing, and each family’s comfort level and circumstances are different, I’ve designed this year’s frog to be essentially a choose-your-own-adventure. While there are a few opportunities for donations, or bringing treats to friends, there aren’t any suggestions to volunteer in person or gather with friends or family. If you and your family are doing these things, please feel encouraged to add them to the prompts. If you are still locked down, take heart; the frog won’t sabotage you or your safety plan.

Please feel free to download a PDF of the calendar so you know what’s coming, and stay tuned.

Happy holidays!

An image of the 2021 Festive Frog Calendar.

December 31: Thanks for an Unfrogettable Festive Season!

Rhyming Prompt: December 31

Today is our last day together, my friend,

I can hardly believe we’ve come to the end!

It’s been such an honor to stay with you here

And when I think of you, I will grin ear-to-ear.

 Have a grand year, and don’t you lose sight

Of all we have worked on together, alright?

Think often of others and how they might feel,

Give compliments often, and always with zeal.

Stand up for people less lucky than you

And try hard to see life from their point-of-view.

You’re such a kind person and I’ll miss you so much,

Although I am leaving, let’s keep in touch.

Download the prompts for December 29-31 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document (you may have already printed these—I’m just re-posting them here for convenience).

An image of the December 31 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the December 31 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Other Materials:

None.

Suggested Pose:

Oof, it’s so sad! Frantz is sitting by the door as if he’s truly eager to head out. We’ll miss you, friend!

Frantz is sitting by the front door with the daily prompt ready to hit the road.

Frantz is sitting by the front door with the daily prompt ready to hit the road.

Activity:

Say goodbye to your frog, and thank them for all the fun times!

Rationale:

Goodbyes are important, and it’s also important to show gratitude. Your frog (as a proxy for you) has worked hard to create something magical this month. Your child has worked hard, too, learning and growing, over the last 30 days. It’s a good idea to honor that work with a goodbye and a thank you. Since we are moving into a new year, and your child has selected a new cause through which to continue their empathetic development, this goodbye should feel like gratifying closure.

Book Recommendation:

We’ll be reading Miss Maple’s Seeds, by Eliza Wheeler tonight. This book is lovely because it’s about nurturing seeds and then sending them on their way. It’s a beautiful story about seeds, but also about saying goodbyes. You can watch a read aloud here.

The cover of Miss Maple’s Seeds, by Eliza Wheeler.

The cover of Miss Maple’s Seeds, by Eliza Wheeler.

December 30: Cause Quest

Rhyming Prompt: December 30

When I was young, I knew that kindness was king

And acting with empathy made my heart sing.

My sister, her passion, once she started thinking,

Is making sure there is clean water for drinking.

My mother and father are wild for school!

They lobby for funding that makes teachers drool.

When it comes to causes it’s hard to choose one

But learning your heart can be kind of fun.

Take some time to today to explore what engages you;

What cause could you focus on this next year through?

Download the prompts for December 29-31 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document (you may have already printed these—I’m just re-posting them here for convenience).

An image of the December 30 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the December 30 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Other Materials:

Books and possibly a device to stream the Internet. Your child may want to do some research on various topics.

Suggested Pose:

This is what happens when the only male in the house lets me have free rein of the children’s education: we amass an obscene collection of bios of only female trailblazers. I suppose we’ll have to correct that at some point. In the meantime, Frantz is encouraging the kids to read through these great collections of short biographies of revolutionary and radical women and to start keeping a journal for Rebel Girls to find inspiration for their own activism.

Frantz is in the book nook again, sitting atop a mound of pillows, with the prompt and several biographies of female radicals and revolutionaries in front of him.

Frantz is in the book nook again, sitting atop a mound of pillows, with the prompt and several biographies of female radicals and revolutionaries in front of him.

Activity:

Today is all about finding a cause that engages your child. Work with them to brainstorm some possible causes on which to focus their energies this year, and plan out some ways they might be able to support those causes.

Rationale:

Over the course of the last month, we’ve explored a variety of different causes somewhat superficially. Now, we’re giving your child an opportunity to choose a cause to explore, independently, in more depth. Educators call this Project-Based Learning (PBL), and it’s a popular alternative to teacher-centered classroom education. The idea behind PBL is that it allows students to center their own interests, hone critical thinking skills while working to solve real-world problems, and develop self-motivation and collaboration skills. For this project to be most effective you’ll want help your child focus their interests, but you’ll follow their lead. Importantly, you’ll encourage them share what they learn as they go, giving them lots of opportunities to tangibly engage with the problem. This school of pedagogy has roots that go all the way back to Aristotle and his insistence that “we learn by doing,” and it has been further informed by thinkers like Maria Montessori and Jean Piaget.

While PBL has been popular for a long time, recent meta-analyses confirm its efficacy. In a 2019 meta-analyses, which synthesized data from 30 peer-reviewed journal articles published from 1998 to 2017, representing 12,585 students from 189 schools in nine countries, the authors determined “that project-based learning has a medium to large positive effect on students' academic achievement compared with traditional instruction” (Chen & Yang, 2019, p. 71). Moreover, they ascertained that the positive impact is consistent across grade-levels and regardless of class size. I’ve published on how effective I’ve found PBL to be in the college-level environmental humanities classroom, but I also use it really successfully with my pre-schoolers. It is absolute magic. It’s my theory that using a PBL framework to help our kids explore a cause that interests them, supported by a strong empathy-building foundation, will help create curious, self-motivated, innovative activists. Let’s see if it works.

Book Recommendation:

Today is a great day to read a book about a young activist. You can choose your favorite, or you might look for recommendations here. We’ll be reading some selections from Rad Women Worldwide by Kate Schatz and Miriam Klein Stahl, which is a household favorite. We read a page a day over the summer, but now feels like a great time to return to it!

The cover of Rad Women Worldwide by Kate Schatz and Miriam Klein Stahl.

The cover of Rad Women Worldwide by Kate Schatz and Miriam Klein Stahl.

References

Chen, C.-H. & Yang, Y.-C. (2019). Revisiting the effects of project-based learning on students’ academic achievement: A meta-analysis investigating moderators. Educational Research Review, 26, 71-81. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.edurev.2018.11.001

December 29: Choose-Your-Own-Kindness

Rhyming Prompt: December 29

When it comes to empathy, kindness, good deeds

You have all the knowledge that anyone needs.

The list that you made yesterday of kind stuff

Will help so many people when life feels too tough.

Today you should pick out one action you wrote

And put it to action. Take a vote

With your folks on the best one for today

And then go ahead and get on your way.

Download the prompts for December 29-31 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document (you may have already printed these—I’m just re-posting them here for convenience).

An image of the December 29 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the December 29 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Other Materials:

Your list of brainstormed kindnesses from yesterday.

Suggested Pose:

Where does democracy happen in our house? In the schoolroom, usually, with our daily school bell, beside a chalk board where we generally write out pros and cons. Frantz knows this, of course, so is sitting by the bell waiting for that family vote to take place.

Frantz is sitting beside the brass schoolroom bell holding the daily prompt on his lap.

Frantz is sitting beside the brass schoolroom bell holding the daily prompt on his lap.

Activity:

With your child, decide which one of the empathetic ideas you brainstormed yesterday to do first! If possible, do it today, and if not, make a concrete plan for how and when you will do it.

Rationale:

This helps your child see how to take an idea from conception to fruition, and it puts them in the driver’s seat. Since people are generally more likely to do something if they think it was their idea, letting your kids take charge and plan their own empathetic activities encourages them to follow through.

Book Recommendation:

Is there anyone who doesn’t love an otter? Do Unto Otters, by Laurie Keller, is based on the golden rule and is truly adorable. You can watch a read aloud here.

The cover of Do Unto Otters, by Laurie Keller.

The cover of Do Unto Otters, by Laurie Keller.

December 28: Acts of Kindness Brainstorm

Rhyming Prompt: December 28

Of all of the good deeds we’ve done together,

Did one in particular make you feel better?

Or did someone do something so kind for you

That it made you feel like your heart really flew?

Let’s make a list of the best things we’ve done

And maybe some new things to add to the fun.

I’m heading home soon, and I’ll miss you a lot

But while I’m gone I’ll be giving some thought

To how kind you are, and the good you will do

Even without these prompts to guide you through.

Download the  prompts for December 25-28 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document (you may have already printed these—I’m just re-posting them here for convenience). If you want to get an early start on the last page of printed rhymes, you can download the prompts for December 29-31 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the December 28 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the December 28 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Other Materials:

Whatever you might want to make a list—the notes app on your phone, a laptop, or a piece of paper and pen.

Suggested Pose:

Frantz has started brainstorming some kind action suggestions of his own, and they’re only mildly self-serving!

Frantz is sitting in the book nook on a pile of garishly patterned pillows. He is holding the day’s prompt and a star notecard that suggests 1. Smile at the neighbors, and 2. Hug mom!

Frantz is sitting in the book nook on a pile of garishly patterned pillows. He is holding the day’s prompt and a star notecard that suggests 1. Smile at the neighbors, and 2. Hug mom!

Activity:

Make a list of some kind things your child has done recently. This is a victory lap. Then, encourage your child to add to the list. What are some empathetic actions your child has witnessed lately? Would they like to replicate any of those? Is there anything else really kind your child would like to do? What does kindness look like to them? Come up with at least three specific actions that your child would like to do.

Rationale:

This gives your child an opportunity to reflect back on their recent empathetic behaviors and feel good about them, and then to plan to continue those behaviors beyond the frog’s visit. It also lets your child take what they’ve learned about empathy and synthesize it into actions they’ve conceived themselves, which will make empathetic behaviors more self-sustaining and desirable.

Book Recommendation:

I love Horton Hears a Who, about how we should be kind and generous to all people, even if others in our lives don’t understand. There is a whole animated film of this, but I truly love this person’s final project for a multimedia class, where they acted out and animated the book. It is charming.

A closeup of the cover of Horton Hears a Who by Dr. Seuss.

A closeup of the cover of Horton Hears a Who by Dr. Seuss.

December 27: The Future You Desire

Rhyming Prompt: December 27

Imagine the world as you want it to be.

Go on, close your eyes—what do you see?

Do you imagine a planet where everyone’s free

To talk to each other more openly?

Where people consider the feelings of others?

To tell you the truth, if I had my druthers

We’d stop letting some people plunder the earth,

Because everyone would finally see its full worth.

We’d all have less stuff

And while that might be tough

It’s worth it so that we could all have enough.

Let’s make a collage of the world we desire;

Once we visualize it we can aim even higher.

Download the  prompts for December 25-28 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document (you may have already printed these—I’m just re-posting them here for convenience). If you want to get an early start on the last page of printed rhymes, you can download the prompts for December 29-31 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the December 27 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the December 27 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Other Materials:

Magazines, catalogs, old calendars, and anything else you have on hand to cut up for collaging. Glue or glue sticks, scissors, and backing paper will be necessary, too.

Suggested Pose:

Did you know that publishers send galleys of unbound picture books to bookshops, and when the shop’s buyer is finished with them, they just get recycled? Back when I worked at a bookstore as a childless 20-something party monster, I found it incredibly soothing to take those old galleys and cut out the best illustrations, and I have inexplicably carted those cutouts around for a decade. This is finally their moment to shine! If you are not quite as odd as I am, you might want to instead pose your frog with whatever materials you will be using for this activity.

Frantz is sitting on a pile of illustrations that have been cut out. He is holding a pair of children’s scissors in each hand, and has the December 27 prompt on his lap.

Frantz is sitting on a pile of illustrations that have been cut out. He is holding a pair of children’s scissors in each hand, and has the December 27 prompt on his lap.

Activity:

With your child, cut out images from the materials you have at hand. Then collage those images to create a representation of the empathetic future your child wants to help build. This is essentially a vision board, except instead of envisioning just what they want for themselves, you should encourage your children to visualize what they want for the world as a whole.

Rationale:

In order to find the motivation to work toward a brighter future, we must first visualize what that future might look like. In all of my research on climate action, this idea resurfaced again and again—when we conceptualize a more sustainable, just, and desirable future, we are better able to reverse-engineer a way to make it reality. Psychologist Per Espen Stoknes, for example, identifies five main barriers to climate communication, and asserts that to break through two of them, which he characterizes as denial and the ways in which climate messages are filtered through cultural identity, we need “captivating storytellers who give hope and inspiration, as well as attractive images of a future in which we live with more jobs, higher well-being and lower emissions. If it cannot be imagined, then people will surely not work for it to happen” (2014, p. 168). While we want our children to expand their vision for the future beyond environmental issues, the underlying principle holds: we need to help them know what they’re working toward if we want them to sustain (and expand!) their productive energies.

Book Recommendation:

Today, I’m going to recommend something very silly: 2030: A Day in the Life of Tomorrow’s Kids, by Amy Zuckerman, James Daly, and John Manders. This book uses technology in development to imagine what life could be like for kids in ten years. Are their predictions right? Probably not. But it’s a really fun way to help your kids get into the spirit of imagining the future and dreaming about what might be possible. You can watch a read aloud here.

An image of the cover of 2030: A Day in the Life of Tomorrow’s Kids, by Amy Zuckerman, James Daly, and John Manders.

An image of the cover of 2030: A Day in the Life of Tomorrow’s Kids, by Amy Zuckerman, James Daly, and John Manders.

References

Stoknes, P. E. (2014). Rethinking climate communications and the ‘psychological climate paradox.’” Energy Research & Social Science, 1, 161-170. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.erss.2014.03.007

December 26: Respect the Earth

Rhyming Prompt: December 26

This planet’s the only home that we’ve got

And we’ve treated it much, much worse than we ought.

When snow becomes rare and the forests catch fire

It’s clear that the climate’s condition is dire.

Sometimes it feels like a problem so massive

We might as well give up and just be passive.

Let’s brainstorm some ways we can push for real action!

If we think hard enough we can find satisfaction.

Download the  prompts for December 25-28 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document (you may have already printed these—I’m just re-posting them here for convenience). If you want to get an early start on the last page of printed rhymes, you can download the prompts for December 29-31 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the December 26 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the December 26 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Other Materials:

Respect the Earth conversation cards. I love Eeboo as a company, and both of my kids adore their card decks. These cards focus on individual responsibility rather than structural change, but they are still a great way to get kids excited about having environmental conversations. Mary DeMocker’s The Parents’ Guide to Climate Revolution would be a great alternative. You might also look through this list of fifty environmental activities kids can do at home, and you can chat with your kids about what environmental sustainability means to you.

Suggested Pose:

The star of this pose is the cards, which my kids should be extremely excited for. Frantz is just pumped to think about how to protect this gorgeous blue marble. He’s a hippie like that.

Frantz is sitting on a book open to an image of Earth. The prompt is in his lap, and the Respect the Earth conversation cards are sprawled before him.

Frantz is sitting on a book open to an image of Earth. The prompt is in his lap, and the Respect the Earth conversation cards are sprawled before him.

Activity:

Using the materials above as a starting point, discuss some environmental things you already do and some more that you would like to incorporate into your daily lives.

Rationale:

We’ve already discussed how people who are empathetic are more likely to take environmental action, but we haven’t yet discussed the research that shows that preschoolers develop higher levels of environmental empathy when they are given explicit instruction on the environment’s value. In a 2017 study (Lithoxoidou et al.), a group of school children, who were encouraged to think of non-human lifeforms, like trees and animals, as living beings with similarities to humans in terms of their needs, developed a significantly more ecocentric worldview than their peers. The main educational interventions involved narrative storytelling and literary encounters, dramatic play, and time spent exploring the natural world. Simultaneously, participants were given empathy education and provided role-models for empathic imitation in a unit called “People who help and protect the forest.” The study’s final conclusions were remarkable and conclusive:

The experimental group responses have changed between the initial and the final interview, whereas the control group ones remained the same. That fact is attributed to the participation of the first and the non-participation of the second in the experimental intervention. The experimental group was exposed to the natural environment (experiential component), it was provided of direct information in a slogan form (inculcation), its members participated in emotional role-taking (with empathy development techniques), they developed awareness of the consequences of their actions to the forest (inductive discussion), they were facilitated to take decisions while facing moral dilemmas (moral development) and developed the ability to diverge from egocentrism and show consideration for others and their needs. In this case the "Others" were non-human beings and thus the "ecocentric orientation" was developed. The same children were able to take responsibility and to proceed to environmentally friendly action (Newhouse, 1990). Such a multifaceted pedagogical approach is conducive to the development of environmental values and the progress of child morality. (Lithoxoidou et al., 2017, p. 81)

Just by exposing our children to nature and helping them think empathetically about the environment, the evidence suggests they will develop long-term pro-environmental tendencies that children who don’t receive this type of explicit environmental education won’t.

Many of the environmental activities we suggest for kids are all about individual action, and it’s true that individual action alone won’t solve climate change or any environmental crisis. However, all the evidence suggests that we need a combination of both systemic and individual action, and that individual action can lead to greater public support for systemic change. This is partially because people are distrustful of those asking for massive policy shifts when they have not already made individual sacrifices, but also because making those sacrifices encourages us to think generously about more meaningful progress. This is a great opportunity to discuss the difference between individual and systemic environmental action with our kids, talk about why we need both, and to think through how we can move toward a brighter future with a multi-pronged approach.

Book Recommendation:

For today, I’d like to recommend two books that focus on kids who made major environmental magic. The first is Follow the Moon Home: A Tale of One Idea, Twenty Kids, and a Hundred Sea Turtles, by Philippe Cousteau, Deborah Hopkinson, & Meilo So. It’s about complex problem solving, asking for help, and taking action, and it’s based on a true story. You can watch a read aloud here. I also love The Water Princess by Susan Verde and Peter H. Reynolds. It’s the story of Georgie Badiel Liberty, and her work to ensure the people of West Africa have access to potable water. You can watch her read the book here.

An image of the cover of The Water Princess by Susan Verde and Peter H. Reynolds

An image of the cover of The Water Princess by Susan Verde and Peter H. Reynolds

References

Lithoxoidou, L. S., Georgopoulos, A. D., Dimitriou, A. T., & Xenitidou, S. C. (2017). “Trees have a soul too!" Developing empathy and environmental values in early childhood. International Journal of Early Childhood Environmental Education, 5(1), 68-88. https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ1158501.pdf

December 25: Habitat Preservation

Rhyming Prompt: December 25

Habitat cleanup is such a delight

It feels good to clean something messy up right.

Let’s do the same thing to our own habitat

And clean up a mess wherever we’re at!

We might take a walk and pick up some litter,

Or we might just make the living room glitter!

Ask your folks how you can help cleanup today

I’m sure when you did it will make them say “Yay”!

Download the  prompts for December 25-28 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document (you may have already printed these—I’m just re-posting them here for convenience). If you want to get an early start on the last page of printed rhymes (!!!), you can download the prompts for December 29-31 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the December 25 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the December 25 prompt printed on cream cardstock with a green border. There is a gold wax impression of a frog in the corner, highlighted in silver. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Other Materials:

None necessary.

Suggested Pose:

Frantz wants to go for a walk and collect trash today, and he has collected the equipment to prove it!

Frantz is sitting in a pair of child’s rain boots in front of a lit fireplace. He has a garbage bag, gloves, and the daily prompt in his lap, and a grabber behind him, as if suggesting a walk around the neighborhood to collect litter.

Frantz is sitting in a pair of child’s rain boots in front of a lit fireplace. He has a garbage bag, gloves, and the daily prompt in his lap, and a grabber behind him, as if suggesting a walk around the neighborhood to collect litter.

Activity:

Choose something to clean up with your kids. If you’ll be opening a lot of presents today, you may want to task your child with wrapping cleanup. You can help them sort what can be saved, what can be recycled, and what can be thrown away (and give them a garbage bag). If you aren’t opening gifts today, perhaps your child would like to go for a walk with you around town, bringing a trash bag and some gloves to pick up litter as you go. Perhaps you’d like your child to clean their habitat—their room. The choice is yours.

Rationale:

Because yesterday’s oil spill activity introduced the concept of preserving habitats, this exercise is about a little more than just helping around the house. It’s expanding on the idea that keeping an environment healthy is essential for every being that lives in that region. Even if your child can live with a mess, this develops an understanding that cleaning is necessary, healthy, and benefits everyone.

Book Recommendation:

Have you been waiting for the day when I would recommend The Lorax, by Dr. Seuss? It has finally arrived! My kids love this book, so it’s a fun one to read for us, even on Christmas. You can watch a read aloud here. Dr. Seuss is a perennially contentious figure because he was an undeniable racist, but his books are classics and deeply embedded in the culture. I try to thread the needle by only reading his books that don’t depict humans and to buy them used so as not to benefit his estate, but I fully understand if you don’t want to read his works at all. I’m also giving my kids One Plastic Bag, by Miranda Paul and Elizabeth Zunon, which I’m very excited to read with them, too. I’ve recommended other books illustrated by Elizabeth Zunon before because her style is so fun and unique. You can watch a read aloud here.

A closeup of the cover of One Plastic Bag by Miranda Paul and Elizabeth Zunon

A closeup of the cover of One Plastic Bag by Miranda Paul and Elizabeth Zunon